Nice links.
By browsing them and a lot more stuff, I think I have narrowed down the exact problem. My DVD drive was I believe manufactured before the DVD+R spec was out. I do not think my DVD player can read DVD+ formats (and I'm suspicious that it has problems with DVD- as well but that will soon be a mute issue), and as you might have guessed that is the very format the disc is burnt in.
By the way Void Goggles is a great replacement for the Ogle Gui. I have a few minor issues, but I think it is better than the original it replaces. At least the stop button appears to work on this one
For a quick summary there appear to be 6 formats for DVD.
1. DVD-ROM this is the maunfactured DVD that you buy from the stores. Every DVD player can read this format, but it is not a home burnable format.
2. DVD-RAM This is the expensive burn solution, boasting rewrite capabilities of 100,000 times. Designed for data storage and backup purposes, it is not optimised to read analogue playback. In theory every DVD player can read this format. However the disks are expensive. I believe this uses a sectoring physical format, as opposed to the grooves used by ROM. The disk can be formated and mounted with say EXT3 so it is more like a removable filesystem.
3. DVD-R this is the next burnable format to be released, and is prefered and recommended by the DVD forum as a standard. It is single writable and I believe it is grooved not sectored. Acts like a normal DVD-ROM. I understand that this format is the most likely to be cross compatible if you are burning a video DVD.
4. DVD-RW this is the next format to be developed, and is basically a Rewritable version of DVD-R.
5. DVD+RW is rather out of line, I believe this format was released before the +R version. It is the format prefered by the industry, but not DVD forum.
6. DVD+R the last DVD format 'standard' which is also the least likely to be readable. If you have a DVD burnt in this format it may not be readable in newer DVD players. Which I think is my problem. This is single burnable only.
I am led to understand that the primary difference between DVD- and DVD+ is the reflectivity of the Disc. DVD+ uses a much tighter spec. So older players may not recognize a burnt disc because the drive is not optimized. Time to clean the laser mayber

, ha ha ha , oh dear need the medication.